Life According to Suni

I Believe. . .

2009-10-18T19:16:00.002-06:00

I received this email from a friend, think it is very worthwhile sharing . . .

I Believe. . .
A Birth Certificate shows that we were born
A Death Certificate shows that we died
Pictures show that we lived!

I Believe...
That just because two people argue, It doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue, It doesn't mean they do love each other.

I Believe....
That we don't have to change friends if
We understand that friends change.

I Believe....
That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.

I Believe...
That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.

I Believe...
That you can do something in an instant
That will give you heartache for life.

I Believe.....
That it's taking me a long time
To become the person I want to be.

I Believe...
That you should always leave loved ones with
Loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I Believe....
That you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I Believe....
That we are responsible for what
We do, no matter how we feel.

I Believe...
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I Believe...
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs
to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I Believe....
That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I Believe....
That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I Believe....
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down
will be the ones to help you get back up.

I Believe...
That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry,
But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe....
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had
And what you've learned from them and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.

I Believe....
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I Believe...
That no matter how bad your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I Believe....
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,
But, we are responsible for who we become.

I Believe...
That you shouldn't be so eager to find
Out a secret. It could change your life Forever.

I Believe....
Two people can look at the exact same
Thing and see something totally different.

I Believe....
That your life can be changed in a matter of
seconds by people who don't even know you.

I Believe...
That even when you think you have no more to give,
When a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.

I Believe...
That credentials on the wall
do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe...
That the people you care about most in life
are taken from you too soon.

I Believe...
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
They just make the most of everything they have.

Motivational Learning

2009-10-09T22:29:00.004-06:00

So, I've been taking these online classes through this training website we have at work. There are hundreds of classes to take - anything from computer classes (which I don't need), to telephone etiquette to product specific and technical training. These classes are a necessary training tool for me as I work to advance in my job. I've been in basically the same position for 5.5 years and it's time to get into something new.

There was a class I took yesterday that centered on customer service via phone and the attitudes conveyed so the customer feels like they are truly valued. Something really stuck with me; the trainer said that for every 3oo positive things you can hear in one day, we WILL experience 1500 negatives - whether it be words, phrases or attitudes around us. That's a 5:1 ration of negativity in a person's day! That really hit home with me. When other people are negative around me or to me, it can bring me down to their level in a heart beat - and I will also say vise versa. Today was my day to be negative at first. I had my weekly weigh in and gained .2 pounds. Now, when I left my house, my scale gave me every indication that I would hit my latest, personal goal today. I recalibrated it so it should have been accurate. However, the one at the meeting was not accurate, at least in my head. I left the meeting feeling like a failure. But really, folks - IT'S ONLY .2 LBS! Come on! What's wrong with me?!

It wasn't until this afternoon that I suddenly had a thought. Let me find 5 positive things that happened or were said today to reverse that. So I made a list:

1. I was told by the receptionist at my meeting this morning that she had read my blog. She said I am "well written." Wow - I mean, I try to be careful about how a write but I haven't thought of myself as a good writer lately. In the Jaycees I would do the Write-up competitions and do pretty well in them but I didn't do it a lot so didn't really take myself seriously. That was really a great compliment for me.

2. Seems to be "Happy go lucky." Well, for those that know me, there are many times when that isn't the case - especially when you think of how I driven I can be. However, I TRY to be more happy than sad, mad or upset. I'll have to put that question on Facebook and ask my friends what they think REALLY think of me. I'm OK with everyone being honest - constructive criticism doesn't hurt me! Regardless, it was a a fun thing to think about and came from a person that has never really had a chance to get to know me well aside from being part of a small high school. Hope I can keep that up!

3. Valuable Resource. Anyone who knows me can agree on that one, even me! Love networking and meeting new people, as well as reconnecting with old friends or acquaintances. If you need something, I can usually find a way to get it for you!

4. Reliable. One of our customers came in today to just chat with me for a few minutes while some product was being loaded onto his truck. He asked "when are you going to be in that position Sarah is in? I need to talk to someone that is reliable and I know will get the job done." Sometimes I fall off the "dependable" truck, but not often. However, I do have that fear of failing someone and don't ever want to take on more than I can handle. I've taken pride over the years to be consistent in my work ethics, but every once in a great while I just simply tank. But guess if it only happens once in a blue moon, I'm not doing too bad.

5. Thanks for your help! I've been helping a friend that's going through a divorce. The soon to be "ex" has demanded supervised visitation with the 4 kids. I'm not sure why, are they afraid the other will HUG the kids to death or something? I mean, come on!! Because of my overwhelming desire to make sure this parent gets to see their children - and they are GREAT kids - I've given up several opportunities for fun, including a once-in-a-lifetime chance to see my hero retired from my favorite hockey team. That just KILLED me. Although you can't really make up that chance, I WILL get to meet the "GREAT ONE" in person again (although in a more memorable setting than last time). My friend is good friends w/Joe and is going to ensure I get to have my time :)

By the time I left work, I was in a pretty good mood. However, that was lost tonight when the Twins lost their playoff game against the Yankees because of dumb-a$$ umpire that is biased. I really hate the Yankees (except for Joe Girardi - he's a former Rockie catcher, you know).

Motivation for the "Lifestyle Eating" change

2009-09-01T18:30:00.000-06:00

By Michael Scholtz, M.A., Best Life fitness expert

It's great to be conscientious about your diet and exercise sessions, but cutting yourself some slack keeps your motivation high. Try adopting an 80/20 approach—strive to make healthy choices 80 percent of the time; this leaves room in your weight loss and fitness programs for setbacks. Here's how to do it:

• Change your thinking. Don't use the words "good" or "bad" to describe food, yourself or your behavior. These words can promote the unhealthy all-or-nothing pattern you're trying to avoid.

• Establish a range for goals. This allows for more flexibility. For instance, "I'll walk 30 minutes four to six times a week" is better than planning to walk everyday.

• Schedule off days. Take a day off from exercise each week. Use the time to focus on a nurturing activity, such as reading or catching up with friends.

• Enlist help. Consider meeting with a nutritionist, trainer, counselor or coach. They can help keep you motivated and also make sure your goals are realistic.

• Cheer yourself on. Place a note in your bathroom, your car or on your calendar to remind yourself to relax.

• Be patient. Nothing causes more frustration than thinking you should be losing faster than you are. Aim to shed up to 1 percent of your body weight each week, but realize that plateaus are part of the journey.

10 Tips for Managing Food Cravings

2009-08-11T07:32:00.002-06:00

by Wayne Mulhstein (Weight Watchers guru) http://www.waynewatcher.com/

How many times has this happened to you? After a great start at eating healthy in an attempt to take charge of your weight, you hear the cookies begin to call you from the cupboard. Pretty soon, half the box is gone and, with it, your latest attempts at weight management.

Many people think that only by avoiding high-fat, high-calorie foods entirely will they ever be able to lose weight and keep it off. Many weight control programs today even call these foods "addictive" and recommend we give them up forever. While you think giving up such foods may help you gain better control over your eating, the truth is you're actually giving up control. Your cravings for the foods you love will remain and may even become stronger. To adopt a healthy eating plan that includes the foods you crave, try these tips:

1. Eat at least three well-balanced meals a day. Even if you're trying to lose weight, don't skip meals. You'll only be hungrier for the next one, and cravings between meals can become overwhelming.

2. Give up guilt. Believing you have cheated on your diet and completely ruined your chances of succeeding produces guilt and feelings of failure. Give yourself permission to eat favorite foods in moderation and without guilt.

3. Accept food cravings as a normal part of living in a food-oriented society. Almost everyone experiences food cravings, regardless of whether they struggle with their weight. The more you understand your cravings, the better you will be able to manage them. While you cannot
control the fact that cravings occur, you can control you reaction.

4. Think "management" instead of "control." "Control" implies an adversarial relationship with food; it's generally a constant struggle to maintain control. "Management" is much easier. When we manage something, we work with it to achieve our desired results.

5. Look at cravings as suggestions to eat, not commands to overindulge. Overeating does not have to be an automatic response to a craving. When a craving begins, determine how you want to deal with it. It is truly up to you.

6. Believe that cravings will pass. A craving is similar to a wave in the ocean. It grows in intensity, peaks, and then subsides if you do not give in. Picture yourself as a surfer who is trying to "ride the wave," instead of being wiped out by it. The more you practice riding the wave, the easier it will become.

7. Disarm your cravings with the 5 D's. Delay at least 10 minutes before you eat so that your action is conscious, not impulsive. Distract yourself by engaging in an activity that requires concentration. Distance yourself from the food. Determine how important it really is for you to eat the craved food and how much you really want it. Decide what amount is reasonable and appropriate, eat it slowly and enjoy!

8. Stop labeling foods as "bad," "illegal," or "forbidden." It's not the food itself that's the problem, but the quantities you consume and how often you consume them. You can eat some of anything you want-even if it is high in fat, calories, or sugar-but to reach your goals, you may not be able to eat all of everything you want.

9. Aim for moderation instead of abstinence. Avoiding things you fear only reinforces the fear. Occasionally practice enjoying reasonable amounts of favorite high-fat or high-calorie foods. You may be happier and better able to stay with a well-balanced plan for healthy living.

10. Exercise regularly. Just as it is vital to successfully managing your weight, exercise is key to managing food cravings. In addition to burning calories, regular exercise may be relief from tension due to anxieties about food cravings. It's also one way to delay, distance, and distract yourself from food.

Slowly but surely

2009-06-21T10:48:00.003-06:00

Weighed in at 237.6 this week which brings me to just shy of a 15 lb loss! Clothes are getting pretty loose, now. Still have a few things to fit into, that will come soon enough! I'm going to just shop the thrift stores for clothes until I am close to my goal weight; no sense buying clothes that I'll only be able to wear for a couple of months.

I've been challenging myself to cook more and different things. It's too easy to go to the store and buy frozen weight watchers dinners; but I still need to get some fresh stuff in my tummy! It's hard when you are cooking for one.

Well, short report this week. I'm going to do some reading for my homework then hopefully hit the pool today! It's beautiful and the water is calling me. . .

Down some more!

2009-06-13T12:56:00.003-06:00

My weigh in was at 239.8 yesterday. The bummer. . . only .2 away from my 5% goal! Oh well, we'll celebrate that one next week. Then the week after that, another 5lbs. I'm making some good progress! I worked out 3 times this week, twice at the gym and last Sunday, Kirsten and I took a really nice walk at EB Rains for about an hour. Its good to have a "buddy" to do these things with. The new goal this week is to get out and work out 4 times. That will start tomorrow since I am going to the Rockies game with Kirsten and the fam; we'll be getting there early enough that we'll be able to get a good walk in. I'm going to shoot for at least 2 morning workouts, and then on opposite days do a short lunchtime workout, at least on the bike. I still haven't done the water exercising yet, not sure why I just don't go do it. I'm so brain dead after work, guess I just don't feel like doing anything.

I have some favorite, comfortable pants that I will not be able to wear much longer. Sad and glad at the same time. I have 2 more pair of those types of pants, they are going to have to go in another 5 lbs as well. I'm not sure if its worth it to pay to have them taken in so I can wear them for another month. My choices in pants are starting to waiver, that's for sure.

This coming week, I'm also going to try out some grilling suggestions from the book I won at last week's meeting. I need to find the time to expand my home eating opportunities. I'm going to try and keep my eating out to once a week max. Need to save money for clothes that I'll buy at the second hand store, since its not worth it to purchase new if I'm only going to be able to wear them for 2 months. What a predicament to have!

Off to do homework. I'll report again next week!

Love Letter to Myself

2009-06-03T19:18:00.003-06:00

In our Weight Watchers meeting last Friday, Michelle asked us to write a "love letter" to ourselves telling us why I came to Weight Watchers, what I hope to accomplish, and why I am not going to quit. Write specifically what I want, what that will feel like, etc. . . . So here it goes!

I joined Weight Watchers because 1) I want to feel better about myself and look better to myself; 2) It is my goal to fit into clothes I have been holding onto (not a lot, but a few) just to prove to myself that I WILL get back into them again; 3) I need to have knee surgery on my right knee. I had surgery on the left a couple of years ago. Although that was worse than what I need to have done now, my recovery took longer than it should of because I am overweight. I AM going to get down to a good weight so that my knees will feel better and I can rehab better when I do have surgery.

It is really hard for me to say that "I love myself." Like many others, I am my own worst critic. There are things that my friends love about me, so I have to accept those traits. I am a good friend to my friends. I like that I have many friends, several that I could honestly say that are close to me; a three people in my life that I consider are really my best friends. They have been there for me and I for them; they have helped me through difficult times and celebrated the best of times with me. I will do anything for them and their families, of whom I am close to as well. I feel great pride in my good friendships.

I am diverse; I can't say that I know a lot about one thing, but I know something about about several things. I like that when I'm not right, I am willing to admit it - being humble is something that is not easy for anyone to do. As I get older, it is easier for me to admit that I can really be a dumbass. I am very comfortable with letting people know when that happens. If you can't make fun of yourself, then you'll never be able to handle it when someone else does!

I am not going to quit this venture of learning how to change my healthy lifestyle. It will be an adventure and a challenge. I will have ups and downs. However, I now have a "buddy" to do this with; we will help each other accomplish the goals we are going after. We will BOTH make time to do what we need to do.

Hmmm - not really a "love letter" per sey, but guess that's how I feel about myself. It's a start, anyway!

Second small milestone reached!

2009-05-22T22:05:00.002-06:00

Today, I weighed in with a loss of 11.2 lbs. . . yeah! next week, I should hit my first goal which is the 5% mark. I haven't exercised as much as I should, just need to get on the ball with that - heck, I have the passes I need, although I DO need to get that deep water exercising punchcard purchased next week. Second goal is hopefully going to make a July 10th appearance. Have to remember, though . . . baby steps! Knowing me, if I get to far ahead of myself, I'll disappoint myself.

Michelle talked about goal setting for the summer - 12 weeks worth. I'm not sure what I want to do with that, yet. I need to really put some thought into it and then post it on my fridge! One of my goals is to go to 2 meetings a week to help me keep up the momentum. Oh, and get myself a "hungry" doll and take pictures of him in the places that I visit to remind me of my goals. Anything that helps motivate me is worth a try!

Lastly, Kirsten is going to start joining me next Friday at meetings. We are going to put our plan in place for the once-a-week BIG exercise day (mornings, hopefully) where we'll do something fun and not at the gym to mix it up. I also want to do the Ultimate Walking Challenge, so need to get Kirsten motivated to join me on that one. Having a buddy to do this with will help both of us!

Now to go find some easy recipes. . .

OK, so I'm sucking at staying up on this thing!

2009-05-17T18:47:00.005-06:00

A lot has happened since January. Had my 44th Birthday, it was a GREAT time! Went to Ohio to visit the family, especially grandma. Came back, found out my position was being eliminated within the entire company; however, they created new positions and I ended up with one of them (33 out, only 6 back in). Started that position officially Friday, but have really been doing it since April 29th. Went to Hilton Head for my cousin Josh's wedding; it was really great to be with all of cousins within that family, all at the same time. Last time that happened (since we were all kids) was at his brother Mike's wedding in 1998. It was fun but WAY too short. I had a whole day and a half with them. Too quick of a trip.

In the midst of the latter part of the above, I finally joined Weight Watchers. I have been able to get my flex benefits to pay for it by setting it up with a medical determination letter. I desperately need to have knee surgery on my right knee; however, I won't do it until I lose at least 50 lbs. I restarted my workout regiments and am also able to get part of that paid for as well. My hours changed at work, so it helps a lot by allowing me to do my workouts in the morning before I go to work; my day goes so much better when I can do that! So, in order to help me track my progress, I'm going to utilize this blog. I've put up a picture of me at my birthday party. Ewwww!! That Daugherty double chin is really showing.

As of Friday, May 15th, I have lost 9.6 lbs. My 5% mark will be at 239.2. I'm going to do this one small step at a time. At 235, I'll be able to wear some pants I haven't been able to get into for about 3 years. I will work to make that goal on June 5th (3 weeks). I was going to this meeting on 88th, behind the Westminster mall. Our team leader, Wendi, is nice enough, but not very motivating. In addition, she looked like she hadn't worked the program in awhile and mentioned nothing about still doing it. Since I had to change my meeting time/day, I chose to try this meeting up on Washington and 120th. Michelle is the leader there; it's a 7:30 start. I REALLY like her, as she still works the program and tells you how much she continues to struggle daily. She's "vertically challenged" (in her words) - just a little thing. However, she is just a bundle of excitement! Michelle really encourages you and she works to reward EVERY thing that you accomplish. no matter how small or big. In addition, she follows up her meetings with emails restating what was discussed that day. What a great way to follow-up and continue encourgement! I'm really happy with this opportunity. However, I struggle every day, so I'm going to work towards going to at least 2 meetings a week for awhile. Eventually, Kirsten will do this with me, too . . . stayed tuned!

So, I promise to keep in touch more, since I have a new goal to work on. This is my year for big change in my life. Stayed tuned for what I'm doing!

Oh, and congrats to Karen for winning her first "public" photography contest! It's a fabulous pic, she really did a great job with it. Check it out on her blog link on the left.

Ciao for now!

Wow - I am WAY behind!!

2009-01-18T18:52:00.011-07:00

What an eventful month and a half! Finished my 3rd semester marketing class with flying colors, hosted a great Christmas Party and bought a new vehicle (have a good "car" friend who gave me a GREAT deal). . . now I'm getting ready to start classes again; continue with the "one-day-at-a-time" body reshaping plan; and starting my own business in part-time customer service business consulting (i.e. mystery shopping); hopefully moving into bigger and better things within the next 2 years. My home is **hopefully** going to get insulated within the next 2 months so I can start saving on my energy bills (and take advantage of the tax credits or rebates). I am once again volunteering for Smart Energy Living Alliance (SELA) in getting our booth ready for the Colorado Garden and Home Show. I'm pretty proud of it, since I once again came up with the original concept (basing it on feedback/responses we had at the booth last year). Kristin helped to fine tune it and Alex helped by finding the sponsors. It's going to be pretty cool - you know I'm all about energy efficiency in the home. The CGHS is Feb 7-15 this year - I'm pretty excited for it this time, especially since I don't have to be there nearly as much as I was last year. My feet and back will be thanking me. . .soon, I hope!

This will be a challenging, opportunistic year for me - I truly believe that; yet, I really wonder what is in store for me at work. Although my boss is giving me the chance to get out among the customers and do some training, I still feel like I'm being held back. It's been confirmed by the old AND new boss that I am very good at what I do and could excel at whatever else I would choose to take on; sadly, he just isn't ready to give me that sales job yet. Although we filled one territory manager position at work, another one "unfortunately" became available when that TM was let go (he is a VERY smart guy). I told my boss that I would take the territory in a heartbeat, but he just laughed it off. It didn't make me feel very good - I'm not sure how to take it yet. So instead, I am immersing myself in other "related" opportunities by making myself more invaluable in my job - I feel pretty safe in saying that I'm not in danger of being layed off.

I was given the gift of a great compliment from my friend Connie who said that I was one of the reasons (she said "the" reason, but I'm not so sure about that) for her coming out of her funk a couple of years ago. A couple other friends have said that if it weren't for me, they'd probably still be only homebody's. One of my best friends is in a weird spot right now with her mom being sick (mom was moved from El Paso to Denver, but Boots stresses out each time her mom goes into the hospital - each time could be "it"); had my "come to Jesus" with her - I will no longer let her go into the "hermit" phase each time she gets a phone call from her mom or gets done with another bout with the hospital. She's stressed and gets depressed. That's not who she is, she's my "sports buddy" and a good friend - I won't let her get that way anymore. Now, if something happens, I'm kidnapping her to someplace we haven't been yet so she can either talk it out if she wants, or get her mind off of things for awhile (although she ends up talking about stuff and I'm OK with that, too). I don't want my friends to go into that "dark" place - it'll take me with them as I worry for their sakes, too. Life is just too short and there is too much to do and see to be sad all of the time!

So, in contemplating 2009, I have to ask myself. . . what are my goals? 1) As always to lose weight; however, getting myself healthier is more important - it will be the stepping stone to the rest falling into place; 2) get in 18 credit hours (2 classes per semester) this year for school; 3) meet 25 new friends/future networking contacts; 4) don't let the way I think I look keep me from meeting someone special in 2009. We all want to improve our appearance; but there is still a point where we can't let magazines, blogs/posts to other social networking websites or even people's opinions dictate how we feel about ourselves - the biggest caveat I put on myself. 2009 WILL be my year - I can feel it!

Today, I went to Jill and Joel's house for a "First Year Living in the New House" BBQ/game day. It was fun as always hanging out with everyone - I didn't realize that they lived so close to me. . . just south of Hwy 76 off, west of Pecos. Not quite a 10 min drive. They are having the Superbowl Party at their house - that will be a fun day as well. Maybe the temp will be in the 60's like it was today! We also have our Dead Pool Draft next week. . . I better get going on the research!

I'm on Facebook now - didn't think I'd like it all that much, but there are really more adults on it than kids (although I am on the "friend list" of several of my friends kids). I've heard from some people I haven't talked to in a really long time, which is pretty cool. I hope to find more friends as people get onto Facebook. If you haven't tried it, think about it!

Hope this is a long enough post - I'll really try to do more than 7-8 posts a year, I promise! (PS - sorry this seems to run together - now matter how much I edit this, it won't separate my paragraphs out!!!)

Kitchen Pictures

2008-11-29T13:02:00.009-07:00

Before . . .

Right now . . . (after is gonna take a few years)

Stay tuned. . . .

After-Thanksgiving

2008-11-29T12:44:00.002-07:00

The evening of Thanksgiving, I am normally looking at ads, deciding what I am going to try and "dive" for at 5am. Not this year. Have to hold back and keep the spending down to a VERY dull roar - actually, more like a peep. Announcements came out at work that there is now a salary freeze through next year. That, coupled with the new 401K program in place, my dispensible income went into the negative numbers! That's OK, though. Things will only be like this for a year, so I just need to hang tight and hold my wallet tighter. It's really been tough with Kiel not working right now, its now back to what it was back in October when he first came - I have no money since I have to feed him. The kid gave me some money when he had a job (a months worth), and does know that he will have to pay back rent once he does find a job. That will put a crimp in his spending; however, I have to recoup what I've lost thus far in groceries and higher energy bills. I wish I could be of more help to him - however, even if I did have more to spend, can't say I'd do anything differently. His mom didn't teach him to be responsible for himself. I will say for Kiel, however, that he is somewhat aware of the cost of living - I know he won't stiff me. Guess I'll just wait for a chunk of money to come my way when he does find a job. It'll be money to go into savings when things get REALLY ugly. . .

I spoke with my grandmother on Thanksgiving, as well as a couple of my uncles. Always nice to chat with the fam. It's getting harder and harder to talk to grandma - however, she still has a sense of humor. Each time I ask her how she's doing, and she says the same thing. . . "I can't see, I can't hear and I can't walk - but I'm just fine, honey!" I'm not sure of a tone of voice to use when talking to her on the phone - if I am too loud, it messes with her hearing aid; if I talk too softly, she can't hear a thing. Heck - when I talk normally she can't either hear or understand. Wish someone would come out with a better telephone for the REALLY hard of hearing. Heck, I'm sure there has got to be something out there - I just can't find it because it probably costs an arm AND leg. I keep the cost of legs out of my searches. It's a bummer that I can't afford to get out to see my relatives this year, I've made it a point to go to OH for either Thanksgiving or Christmas each year for awhile, now. Really, I'd like to get out there a couple of times a year, even if it is for a long weekend. I will get to that point soon - just have to be patient.

I'm hosting the Senate Christmas Party this year - Connie and I really want it to come off well. It's been our hope to get more people there; those that wouldn't come in the past due to where it was being held. It has gotten a little expensive for me. Even with the little bit of reimbursement I am getting, it's still quite a bit to come up with. But, if it is a success and we manage to get some old timers there we haven't seen in awhile, then it will be well worth it to get to hang out with my friends during the holidays.

With that being said, I have some phone calls to make. . .

OK, so it's been awhile!

2008-11-09T09:36:00.008-07:00

I'd say I've been busy, but it's probably more like lazy in getting my next entry onto this blog. Sorry about that! It's been an interesting couple of months. September was a time to re-evaluate what my priorities are with this new investment. The funds to spend on this place pretty much depleted, I am just collecting items here and there until I collect enough to get Brandon out here to do a day's work and get a bunch of projects done. I still need to get the rest of the outlets changed out - I've tried to electrocute myself a couple of times already. My boss gave me a gift certificate for $250 for helping to do some selling at work, since "technically" I'm not allowed to earn spiffs, bonuses or anything of the sort for sales. Anyway, I'll be using that to purchase a vanity for my bathroom, and hopefully get that thing operational by month-end so I can have my own "bathroom" space again.

My nephew Kiel moved in with me on September 29th when I picked him up at the airport. He flew back from Orlando, where his mom and he went after a mere few weeks in Morgan City, LA. They left that place right before Hurricane Gustav's eye went over the town , right on the gulf coast. Kiel doesn't like the humid climates so much and couldn't get the rest of the money he needed for school, so guess he decided to come back, get a job to save some money and get a car and make the rest of the money he would need for his "underwater welding" school. He gives money for rent, but sits around the house too much right now - all he does is watch TV. However, if I give him something to do, he gets it done without question (unless its "how do I do that?"). All around he's a good kid - he has things to learn, so we still have some work to do.

The most significant thing that has happened within the last month is the death of two friends. One was expected, but one was WAY too sudden. My friend Stephanie's dad was diagnosed with cancer of the liver this past spring. Once that diagnoses happens, it is inevitable that the person will not survive. I've known and heard of many people passing anywhere from 1-3 months after that type of diagnosis. He really outlived what the doctors likely predicted. I didn't know Charlie really well, but talked with him many a time when they came down to Denver to visit Steph. A nice guy with strong opinions about politics and life. He and Kay (Steph's mom) were avid hunters - Kay apparently getting the biggest of any elks between the two of them. They had the opportunity to go hunting one last time around a week before he passed away - but didn't get to stay out long as Charlie was getting weaker and weaker by the day. At least he had the opportunity to enjoy his love of the outdoors one more time. I went to that funeral on Oct 10th.

On October 2nd, I learned that my friend Kim was in the hospital via a phone call from our friend Connie. I got there and was told that she had cancer, albeit at the time it wasn't known how bad it really was. She had a mass on her spine and one on her lung. Kim went into the hospital that Monday evening because she couldn't move her leg and her back was hurting so bad that she couldn't sleep. Her daughter Kyrie, who was living with her, took her to the hospital. Apparently, Kim had been having problems for a couple of months; however, she was on Kaiser insurance, so her doctor just sent her home with painkillers and that was all. I guess they did an xray at one point, but the positioning of the masses and how they were taken didn't show anything, and the doctor didn't try to go after it another way. At the hospital, they did a CAT scan and MRI to find the problem. They started her on radiation Thursday and Friday, but since those folks don't work on the weekends, she wasn't going to have treatments then.

I called Kim that Friday to see how she was doing, and she was OK at the time. I traveled to Grand Lake for the weekend with the people I work with to have a relaxing couple of days - I would highly recommend the Rapids Lodge to anyone that decides to go up there, its a great place and inexpensive compared to all of the other places. I took a few hours by myself and traveled past Kremmling to see Monika and Tom Carey. Wow - what a view they have from their home! It's a small place, situated on a hillside next to a grove of aspen trees. They have HUGE windows all the way around the house, so you can really see everything around them - a valley and a beautiful mountain range. I can't imagine what it must look like when its snowing - that has got to be just the prettiest place when there is any type of weather going on.

When I headed back down the mountain that Sunday morning, I encountered a combination of sunshine when leaving Grand Lake to cloudy and snowy going over the pass (and then sunny again) downhill from Winterpark. There wasn't more than a dusting of the white stuff on anything, no accumulations as was originally predicted. I stopped by the hospital for a couple of hours to spend some time with Kim - she was having a hard time breathing, gasping for breath constantly. While I was there, her "main" doctor (he called himself the organizer) told her that the mass on her lung was stage 4 cancer and inoperable. They would still do the radiation if she wanted to see if they could keep shrinking the mass. She had to mull over it. I had to go, since my mom was in town and coming to my house that evening. Kim had told me earlier during my visit that she didn't like being along, so I felt bad for having to leave at that time. I came home, did some cleaning and got my mom settled in. No more than a few minutes after we got home from having a quick bite to eat (around 7pm), I received a phone call saying that Kim had gotten worse and that I should come back to the hospital. I went down there and stayed with the girls and Connie and visited with Kim until around 11:30pm. I had taken Monday the 13th off, so I was back at the hospital by 7am that morning. Kim's mom and sisters flew in during the early hours of Monday morning, so I had the chance to meet them. Several things took place during the day that were hard to deal with. . . a lot of tenseness between Bob (Kim's soon to be ex-husband) and the rest her family. I stayed until around 7pm that night then went home to spend a little more time with my mom. I went back immediately after work on Tuesday - they had moved her to the hospice area of the hospital. She was pretty much out of it, having difficulty sleeping comfortably, but still sleeping the entire time. Bob's mom got in that night and spent some time with her, and Kyrie decided she was sleeping next to her mom and not leaving her side for the rest of the time she was in there. Kim passed away about 2:30am on Wednesday morning, almost exactly 12 hours after Charlie died. Wow - hadn't had that ever happen before. I met Connie and Kim's sisters and mom at the hospital that morning - they were going to have a "last goodbye" with Kim. I couldn't bring myself to do that, it's not the last thing I want to remember about her. So we went to breakfast and then I went back to work.

Now I take something that Connie told me to heart - live like you only have 7 days left on earth. I can't say I've been good about doing that, though, but I keep that saying with me and work slowly to aspire to it. Everyone should.

Almost Labor Day Weekend

2008-08-28T19:46:00.003-06:00

And boy - will I be laboring! I have had some work done today to my abode, things that have needed to get done for weeks. My new countertop, sink and garbage disposal went in today, which was the BIG event. Now I can finish getting my kitchen done! Also getting some other things done like a few outlets and switches replaced, light fixtures replaced, and some minor plumbing done. Saturday morning I'm painting and moving stuff out of the living and dining room so carpets can get cleaned and I can move furniture in - FINALLY!! Getting tired of eating dinner either while sitting on living room floor, at desk or in bedroom on tray in my chair.

Boots and I are going to the "Taste of Colorado" tomorrow night. We learned last year that Friday night is the time to go to see all of the booths and such - its not nearly as crowded and everyone is in a good mood. By mid-day Saturday, workers are hot, tired and grumpy! It'll be fun, then we might go again later in the weekend to see a couple of bands we'd like to listen to. I have a BBQ to go to Saturday evening, then Sunday and Monday will be spent organizing and going through more containers/boxes.

Pics will be forth coming soon - I promise! So stay tuned. . .

The DNC - Why, Oh Why?

2008-08-26T20:09:00.004-06:00

You know, I have to admit that having the DNC here isn't a bad thing, no matter how much I don't believe completely in the Democratic Party's belief system. It is actually quite fascinating to see all of the people, the celebrities and mostly how folks think of our Mile High City.

Last night, I hung out with Boots and Sharon to watch the "going's on" of the 16th Street Mall. We sat at the Capital Grill at the Sheraton (formerly Adams Mark) hotel, which was just southeast of all the action. The only celeb site-ing I had was of Carlos Mencia - and I only recognized him as he was wearing that blue and black tunic length soccor jersey he always wears. He was across the street and my camera phone wasn't working, so couldn't get a picture of him. Anyway, I sat and listened to stories that Boots was telling and their Friend Paula (who used to work for the Denver Business Journal, but moved away around 3 years ago) were sharing - Paula was here for another media outlet she works for in another city, I think she said in Wisconsin. It was very interesting to hear first hand from journalists what they saw and experienced - and the things they REALLY saw that haven't been portrayed quite truthfully by the News/Post.

While we were sitting there, we saw several protestors just walking the mall; even protestors that protested protestors. Now THAT was funny. . . after an hour and a half, we decided to mosey on down the mall, getting blockaded by a bunch of SWAT members in full gear. They were apparently expecting a nasty mess with some protestors, but everything actually came off peacefully. I tell you, these guys were ready for anything! While we were waiting for Boots (she was trying to take pictures with a dead battery in her camera), Sharon and I met this guy from WDC. He was looking for change to put in the meter. Told us that Denver is by far the nicest city he has been in; said he attends some huge security conferences, and the facilities here are far superior to most he's been to. That was a nice thing to say - for a democrat. . . just kidding :)

Let me again say that although I'm not a Democrat, you can't help but kind of get caught up in the pageantry of this event. Those that are smart will truly emerse themselves in knowledge and learning why they believe what they believe - whether Republican, Democrat, Libertarian, Green Party, etc. Having a vast knowledge of all areas can only enhance your current belief system that much more. I've actually thought about attending Ralph Nader's Rally tomorrow night just to say I went. Although I'm a Sean Penn fan in the sense of his acting, I'm not a fan of him on a personal level. It seems as though he thinks he can affect current foreign dignitaries - even though they have openly laughed behind his back. Anywhoo, he will be there with Val Kilmer - haven't heard him try to speak - it would be interesting to hear their reasons for supporting Nader.

Near the end of the evening, Boots, Sharon and I walked to the MSNBC makeshift studio where Michelle Obama's speech was being televised. The sound was WAY off of the video, but in a different way -you heard the words BEFORE she said them. Kind of weird. It's just ironic that she "is proud of America" when she apparently only became that way a mere few months ago. Sorry, but no matter WHO has been President of our country - I've always been proud of America. We are still the power center of the world, even though we have things that we need to work on. So "blah, blah, blah. . . " and that's all I have to say about that (in a Forest Gump voice).

I'm hoping that Boots will have some pictures that I can post on here (since, again, my camera wasn't working right) to show you some of the things we saw that YOU won't see in the news. Again, have to say that decorations were cool - Denver really did a great job in showing off our city. Just hope that doesn't equate to more permanent guests - although I can live with the occasional part-time resident. In the meantime, check out http://www.bizjournals.com/denver/ to see some different pics, stories and blogs. I'm going to get ready to watch The Daily Show - his first taping was today (wish I could have been there).

A Dreary Day

2008-08-15T21:31:00.003-06:00

I took the day off from work to go to WaterWorld with Kirsten - of all days, when we've had 90+ temps, it was around 65 and rainy. . . BIG bummer. Was really looking forward to using my "Hyland Hills" card, which gives me a large discount on going there since I live so close (4 blocks). So instead, went and got my new driver's license then we went to see the movie Momma Mia! It was really a cute movie, but I'm sure even Pierce Brosnan has decided this is the last time he's ever singing publicly like that. Not only does it not fit his persona, but it just didn't sound right. Doesn't make me like him any less, he's still one sexy hunka man! Just don't sing :) I'm really a Colin Firth fan as well - most of the characters he has played have been pretty humble, un-assuming types. Don't know why I like that about him, but he's a cutie as well. It's that dreaming thing that gets in the way I guess.

After the movie, went to the Scandanavian Furniture store - they sent me a postcard to get a free pillow, I was in the area, so what the heck? Moving into a new home and new neighborhood gets you lots of coupons and the once-in-a-while freebie, so who am I to not take advantage of their kindness? I'll use it for the spare bedroom. I also went to the Homegoods Store (part of TJ Maxx) - it's my new favorite home store! They had an original picture that just screamed "put me on your wall!!!" So that's what I did - bought it, and I'll hopefully get it on a wall soon. It has the perfect color combination to compliment my bedroom, so it'll be my first piece of art I put up. They had tons of great looking mirrors and other pics that were very reasonable - even some lamps that I liked (missing light in this place - gotta fix that soon!).

I've been looking for a plum-colored bedspread, but it's just not in any store's color selection this year. Bought a comforter set last weekend, but I haven't taken it out of the bag yet - not convinced that I like it yet. Waiting for Shannon to come over and let me know if it will work out with the whole color scheme. In reality, if I'm not thrilled about it, really need to just take it back. Maybe I'll do that tomorrow after I get my books for school.

Y'all have been asking about seeing pictures of the place, so I do promise to take some more and get them posted very soon. I expect to get some done tomorrow. Again, still a lot to get done, but at least you'll see some progress.

Its a Sllllooooowwww process. . .

2008-08-09T07:17:00.004-06:00

Here I am, 3 weeks into being in my new place, and it still looks like a disaster area. My first concern is getting my kitchen as done as possible so I can put EVERYTHING away. I still need to do more painting; clean up the hinges so I can paint them to somewhat match the brushed nickel knobs and such, then put the cupboard doors back up; get the counter tops and new sink in. In the meantime, I need to do take down a few more things in my master bathroom so I can paint, change out a fan/light, install the new medicine cabinet and find a vanity that will work in there. There was a suggestion to just put the pedastal sink I bought in there, but there is too much plumbing work that would have to be done to make it work, so I'm just going to get a smaller vanity.

I seriously need some simple plumbing help. Think I know of someone that can help me, just need to conjure up the guts to ask them. Desperately need help with simple electric, too, so might ask a friend of they can help me for steak and beer. Don't know if it will work, but I'll give it a try!

Realizing I haven't updated y'all for awhile, thought I'd at least let y'all know that I'm alive and frustrated! :)

The Fixer Upper

2008-07-16T21:23:00.009-06:00

Man, have I got my work cut out for me. Feel like I have spent a mint and we are only 2 days into the improvement projects. Thank goodness I have my friends Ronnie and Shannon helping. Shannon has been working on the colors and painting, as well as some decorating ideas. She has painted the living room, my bedroom and walk-in closet. Tomorrow, I start with the little painting jobs like the inside of some storage spaces and a couple of walls that will be located behind the fridge and stove. Ronnie just tears everything up :) Really, she's just working on the other projects that ironically do require some minor construction work - i.e. replacing the ugly tile back splash in the kitchen, fixing the sliding glass door so I can ACTUALLY come and go to my vehicle through it (like locking and unlocking the door), and redoing the master bath by replacing the vanity, medicine cabinet and lights (I don't care what you say, I DO like the new lights I picked out!).

Some unexpected costs came up like putting a new electrical outlet for the stove and replacing the outlet for the new fridge. My friend Roger came over and did that for a reasonable price. The fridge has to be smaller (to 35" wide) than the average width (36"). Since this is not a common size in the "use 'em again" stock at Habitat for Humanity, ended up spending twice as much as I intended. But I have to tell you - it's like buying a new car. It has all the bells and whistles and I'm REALLY excited for it! Just knock me upside the head. . .

So the two pictures you see are of the kitchen (uggh) and master bath (double ugg). I'll post the pictures of the transformations when they are done. It'll be like night and day!

Stay tuned for the new saga in my life. . .

FINALLY! (and the retirement party)

2008-07-07T19:46:00.003-06:00

Got word today, able to close on the 14th of July! I'm scared sh@#$%ss!! Really, I'm excited but kind of nervous at all I have to do now. So much needs to still be done. . . I took all of next week off so I have the entire time to paint and do whatever else I need to do before moving my stuff. I really have the rest of the month to get a lot of it done, but would like to get my 1/2 month's money's worth and live in my own home. Have to fix some pretty minor plumbing issues, get some cable strung upstairs so I can hook up my TV and computer and work on the bathrooms. At least now I can go get that fridge and stove and tile and lights and such at the HFH store to start with - get the good stuff immediately before anyone else gets smart and buys it for themselves!

Have to mention this. After 6 months in a different job, my former boss, Skip, decided to retire. It was a shock to me, as I thought he'd stay at least 2 more years before he retired. My friend Sue (from our Salt Lake office) came out the night before so we could go shopping for Skip's gifts and get the scrapbook put together. After talking to his wife, Laurie, a couple of weeks earlier, we found that the best gift would be to outfit him with fly-fishing gear. Apparently 2 of his sons have really gotten into it and want dad to get started with it. Sue and I had fun shopping around the Bass Pro Shop. We had a great sales person who helped us stay within budget with a little $$ to spare - walked us through everything. By the time we got done that night with everything (including dinner), we were absolutely pooped.

I picked up Sue on Monday morning from the hotel and went to work. Since she had a bunch of reports to do, she took over my computer for a lot of the time, so I just piddled around and did little stuff that I had been putting off.

That night, we had the retirement party at Pappadeaux's Seafood Kitchen in Westminster. Boy, I really like that place! It was the second time I had been - food was great and so was the wait staff. It was about a 3-hour dinner with speeches, memories and unwrapping of gifts. We systematically gave items to Skip to open - I think it took him opening a few before he figured out what he was getting! I'm sure he thought "wow - more fishing gear" but didn't expect it to be so specific. It was a fun night, where I got a little crying off my chest and hung out with the folks from work without being AT work. That is always a good time. But again, by the time I left, I was just dead tired.

So - that is my update for now. House and parties. What more can you ask for?

Not Yet!

2008-06-28T20:24:00.003-06:00

Still awaiting the finale word on the loan. Talked w/Michael yesterday, said he missed a couple of FHA forms I needed to sign, so he's going to get them to me ASAP so I can finish them off, then the papers will go to underwriting. Dang. . . hurry up and wait - again. Now I should before the 4th of July holiday. Just imagine - if this all goes through, by then, I'll have a week and a half to get my crap together! Holy SHIT!!!!!!

Karen and I went to White Fence Farms for dinner tonight. We've talked about going there for the 4 years I have been here - so decided it was time (had a reminder, too - we forget about doing it until we drive by there like once every couple of weeks, then it leaves our thoughts). It was a decent dinner, just under $40 for the both of us with dinner, tea and 1 side salad. Not bad. A cool place, I must say! The way they have things set up, kind of reminds me of a "country Vegas." Get a number, wait for 45 min, sit down with the masses, order food, eat, pay at a register on your way out. Only difference - NO buffet. There was plenty to do around there while you wait for your number to come up, so it was actually a fun experience, I must say! I highly recommend visiting there - but if you go on the weekend, get there early. We arrived just before 5:30, waited not quite 45 min. However, they sure know how to get more money out of you, albeit cheaply, but more of it!

This coming week is going to be very busy for me. Need to finish my homework tonight (tomorrow at the latest); retirement party for my former boss, Skip Monday night; home Tuesday, then either baseball games or lacrosse games the rest of the week - literally. But next Saturday is Matt Holiday Bobblehead night, so it will be well worth it :) I have to buckly down and get to sorting/packing next weekend, feeling pretty overwhelmed at all the things I need to get done - whether I get to move or not. So, if anyone feels like taking pity on me, I'd be mighty grateful for any help I can get :)

Guess I better get some rest, now. Have to pick up my friend Sue from the airport tomorrow morning - we'll be shopping at Bass Pro Shop and putting together a scrapbook for Skip's retirement on Monday. Going to dinner at Pappadeaux's, so it'll be fun - but a very busy - next 2 days. *Whew* I'm just tired thinking about it!

Catch y'all next week. . . . S.

Why Is Now the Right Time to Buy a Home?

2008-06-22T12:07:00.002-06:00

Home ownership just scares the bazookas out of me, but yet I'm excited at the same time. I can't say that financially I'm entirely ready for it, but I can afford to do it. I just need to be more creative with my time since I won't be able to spend any money for awhile :)

The real estate market all over the US is very volatile. You have some places where the market is staying consistent - meaning prices haven't increased or declined much (which can keep the dream of home ownership out of reach for some people). Then you have places like Colorado - I must use the Denver area as an example - south around Parker, although sales are down, they are still steady and folks don't have to sacrifice the price of their homes - most are newer. There are people that will buy them for asking price. Then there are the places that I have been looking - the city of Thornton, for example (north Denver Metro). Up there, the homes are older, built mostly around the 60's- 70's. Yes, older, some with what we would deem now as non-flexible floor plans and smaller. However, they are the dream homes for those that like to fix up houses. The opportunities are tremendous!

For the property I am trying to purchase, it is the opposite of what I wanted to get originally - a ranch style 3 bed, 2 bath with garage. It is a 3 bed, 2-1/2 bath, but 2 floors and a carport. Not my ideal living arrangements; but for the short term it will do. Purchasing a property to fix up and sell in a few years - an investment property in my case - is what I decided was the best choice for me. Setting up an FHA loan where I don't need to have so much money down to purchase a home, is the first step to making this work. Michael, my mortgage guy, helped me figure out the best way to go in financing, helping me keep my closing costs down to a minimum - and he has accomplished that nicely! But I think the biggest thing for me in this entire decision is that I found a property that really is a killer deal. The market will bounce back in 3-5 years, by which time I will be ready to sell and should be able to make a tidy profit on it (hopefully I won't get killed in capital gains taxes, but we'll see who is voted into office and what changes are made by then). I'll be able to pay off any remaining bills I have and become debt free; then purchase another home that I will like more and stay in longer.

So, today's investment will definitely help me towards my retirement in the future. Who knows - I might like doing this so much, that I'll keep doing it for a few more homes.

I also have to mention - as I look at the prices to fix/replace items in the home, it has been brought to my attention that there are many other places in which to go to purchase what is needed for home improvement. Originally, I wanted to purchase the new appliances that are desperately needed in this home, and all new everything (via Home Depot, Lowes and Appliance Factory Outlet). But realizing my budget that I have for the immediate fixes, that will have to wait. My friend Stephenie recommended that I check out the Habitat for Humanity store as well as another place called Bruces (?). They have new and used items, selling them inexpensively. In addition, purchasing from them makes a percentage a tax-deductible donation right off the top. I went to the HFH the other day and was pleasantly surprised by what I found. Now, none of the appliances are new; however, they are usable. Each is cleaned up and priced to sell. You can get stoves for $100 and refrigerators for up to $300 (the one I found had bells and whistles on it - doubt it will be there when I go back, all I can do is hope!). They also have new tile, wood flooring, caulking, everything you would need to do home repairs. Even kitchen and bath sinks! Wow - I'll be able to get a lot of bang for the buck at this place, allowing me to fix up my abode and make it look better than it ever has.

I'll find out at the end of this week about the finalization of loan acceptance. Until then, I wait. . . ugghh.

The "Possible" New Digs, part deux

2008-06-17T23:08:00.002-06:00

Today I received the beginning title paperwork for the townhouse as well as tax information and HOA information. Michael tells me that everything could easily be ready to go by the end of next week, which means I could close earlier if I wanted. However, I won't be ready to move sooner than the original July 15th date that we have been shooting for, so don't think I'll take advantage of that opportunity.

A few have asked where this property is. It is about 6 blocks from Water World (woohoo - cheap tickets@!!), just southwest of 88th and Huron in the Park North Condo Community. I'd say it's almost a stones throw, but I definitely don't have the arm of Randy Johnson, otherwise that would be accurate :) I haven't divulged much about this place yet, just in case something goes wrong and my poor heart gets wrenched from my chest. Neither John (my agent) nor Michael believes that will happen, but I won't really believe it until the loan is finally approved. So far, things have been going VERY smooth, I think more so than John has expected.

More later - Rockies play Clevelend starting tonight, so we can see our buddy Jamie Carroll out and about on the field again, even though he is with the opposing team, now. He's been doing well with the Indians. If he hit the field in tonight's game, I'm sure he recieved a standing ovation. I'll let you know tomorrow night if we do the same thing.

Now - back to the homework!

The Good and the Sad. . .

2008-06-15T21:31:00.004-06:00

I have started the process of home ownership. A week ago, went through the offer/acceptance part of the process. This past Thursday, we did the inspection of the property. With the exception of a few minor things that need to be done, everything looks good. My friend Shannon came with me while Troy (the inspector) worked on his report and we measured everything. She took pictures as well - she wants to help me get this new place of mine into shape, so I'm letting her have at it. I went to Home Depot today to start pricing out the things I will need for the immediate issues, as well as the items I want to do in the future. If I can do most of it myself, I'll be able to accomplish it in less money than I had thought initially. I'm just very blessed that I have so many friends and several have already said they will be there to help out with my first home.

The next step is the mortgage. I have to send the rest of the paperwork in tomorrow so they can get going on that. I don't know when Michael (my Mortgage Broker) will be getting the appraisal done, but I assume it will be soon so they can get the FHA loan going. We have a scheduled close date of 7/15, so hopefully it will all pan out for that day. I plan on closing late in the date, then taking for the remainder of that week off to do the moving, painting, etc. I do have to say that I got a killer deal on this place (for the semi-decent shape it is in, too) and will be setting this up as an investment property to create capital for me in the future.

In the midst of this, the saddest news came upon our country on Friday when Tim Russert passed away. The news really was a blow to people around the country - I was very upset upon hearing the news. In reading some blogs on 9news.com, some people were saying "he was so left," and "why all the attention on him?" Well, first of all - who cares where he leaned? His biggest thing was to educate the public, not tell them which way to vote. I don't care who you are, if you thought his line of questioning tried to guide the public in thinking one way or the other when he spoke with politicians, then YOU WEREN'T PAYING ATTENTION! Mr. Russert went after everyone, Democrat, Republican, Independent, Green Party, etc. He asked the tough but fair questions - holding those people accountable for the things they said they would do and didn't. The US has suffered the greatest loss of a gracious, caring person. Wow - I'm still very upset. I pray for his family and all those that were his friends. Just glad I had my 3 minutes of time with him in April at the Damon Runyon awards ceremony honoring him - wish it could have been a whole lot more. There were so many questions to ask, and I got nothing in due to just being nervous. I was just happy to say "Hi" and "thanks for coming to Denver!"

Well, continue to watch this blog as I work my way through the up and coming issues of "possible" home ownership as well as school - that's a whole other post!!

It has started. . .

2008-06-03T20:08:00.004-06:00

John and I looked at 3 places during my lunch hour this past Thursday - 1 was completely unacceptable, one had an awesome wood floor in the kitchen (but the overall design sucked) and the third needs work, but is just about right. The exact opposite of what I wanted, which was a ranch level with garage - I am now in the beginning swings of the purchase of my first home. Bank accepted my offer yesterday on a 2 story townhome - 3 bedroom, 2-1/2 bath at a little more than 1400 sf. with a 2 space carport. They came back with a contract right away, so after much discussion (and many questions) with John, I signed on the dotted line, gave them a check for "earnest money" and am on my way! I'm meeting with my mortgage guy tomorrow to work on the paperwork for the FHA loan. Next week, after the bank starts their paperwork, I have to schedule the inspector.

At the inspection, I'm going to take my friend Shannon with me and we'll look at the place so she can get to work on some decorating ideas. I'll need to take measurements to start getting costs on the carpet, appliances, a new kitchen sink and counter top; then figure out paint and curtains. We are looking at a closing date of July 15th, so I'll probably try to schedule that later in the day then take the rest of that week off to get things moved and prettied up. So much to do and so little money to do it with!! Dang. . . .

Memorial Weekend

2008-05-25T22:31:00.003-06:00

I decided to take a lengthy weekend - 1/2 day on Wednesday to go to a Rockies game (Fuentes lost it for us in the last couple of innings, that sucked), then took Thursday to go look at potential places to buy with John. We looked at 4, I liked 3 of them and 2 once again had offers made on them - one had 4 by Monday. Why do agents do that to you?? I finally decided that my best bet is the townhome we saw, it has a lot of potential to be an excellent investment property. Fix it up, live in it for a couple of years then sell it. Really a good location in the area. However, with the way my luck has been, I'm not holding my breath that I'll be in the running to get it. I'm telling you, house hunting has not been fun for me one iota.

Thurdsay evening, I went to the zoo with Karen for a members only night. They apparently had some special events going on, but the kids got out of school on Wednesday for the summer, so there were several around - didn't get to see what we would have liked as a result. In addition, it was a little too cool for the monkeys and such to be out so didn't see any of them at all. Karen took some photos - I haven't seen those yet, but I'm sure she got some good ones. Again, please check out her link on the left - she's showing some really good stuff on there!

Friday was an easy day at home, doing some further cleaning and such. Friday night Boots, Karen and I saw a play called "Almost Denver - The Songs & Failures of Jim Aurora," a spoof on John Denver. It was absolutely hilarious - we all highly recommend it, especially for those that have lived in Denver a long time. A married couple in the show wrote it - its a 5 person ensemble that takes turns playing parts (particularly the part of Jim Aurora - they all play him once at different stages of his life) and have made up alternate words to most of John Denver's most popular songs. Again, just a hoot of a play. It's at The Avenue Theatre, corner of Logan and 17th through mid July.

Saturday and today I pretty much stayed home and worked on some little projects. Didn't get as much done as I had hoped, but they are all projects so it'll be a little while before they are complete - but need to finish them before I move as it could affect how much stuff I take with me to the new place - whenever that is.

This last month has been a little grinding. Been somewhat busy. Finished classwork, of which I begin summer classes this coming Tuesday. Doing well there. Moved my office at work - although its not the desired set up I'd like to have, its better than what I had. I'm good with that. Boots and I decided kind of last minute (end of April, actually) to get season tickets to the Outlaws pro-outdoor lacrosse league games for the summer, so went to our first game of the season last week. That'll keep us occupied for a little while.

Learned that my nephew is moving the end of June, a little sooner than I had hoped. He's going to Morgan City, LA to take classes in underwater welding. Says there is good money in it, but I know he hasn't been doing any swimming lately or practicing for whats to come. His mother is moving with him, going to pay for the place for them to live. Kiel isn't learning how to take care of himself and at the ripe age of 19, isn't learning all that he needs to become independent. I'm really worried about that and not sure that there is anything I can do to help him get through that portion of his life. He needs to learn more about paying bills and budgeting. Don't know if I should give him a book to learn about that or if he has a computer, give him some Quicken software he can use to help him budget as well. I know he doesn't like to owe anyone but that doesn't mean he knows how to save for the long term. Guess all I can do is hang out and be there for him when he has the questions.

That's all for now, hopefully I'll have some good news in the near future. . .